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The most obvious way to find the mammoth is to figure out where your fear is—where are you most susceptible to shame or embarrassment? What parts of your life do you think about and a dreadful, sinking feeling washes over you? Where does the prospect of failure seem like a nightmare? What are you too timid to publicly try even though you know you’re good at it? If you were giving advice to yourself, which parts of your life would clearly need a change that you’re avoiding acting on right now? VFp)`+8
很明显，找到猛犸就是找到你的恐惧，那些你最容易羞愧和尴尬之处。你认为生活中的哪部分是可怕的要淹没你的。哪些失败看起来像噩梦。就算你很擅长驾驭公众场合也很羞怯的地方。如果你想拿定一些主意，生活中的哪部分是你很乐意去改变又不敢做的事？ Ho {?m ^
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The second place a mammoth hides is in the way-too-good feelings you get from feeling accepted or on a pedestal over other people. Are you a serious pleaser at work or in your relationship? Are you terrified of disappointing your parents and do you choose making them proud over aiming to gratify yourself? Do you get too excited about being associated with prestigious things or care too much about status? Do you brag more than you should? VH*(>^Of F
猛犸的第二个藏身之处是自我感觉良好或者别人给你这样的感觉。在工作或者人际关系上你真的很成功吗？你害怕让父母失望从而选择让他们以让自己高兴为目标？你很在意和出名的人事有关系？你总吹牛吗？
