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Losing touch with your AV also makes you fragile, because when your identity is built on the approval of others, being criticized or rejected by others really hurts. A bad break-up is painful for everyone, but it stings in a much deeper place for a mammoth-run person than for a person with a strong AV. A strong AV makes a stable core, and after a break-up, that core is still holding firm—but since the acceptance of others is all a mammoth-run person has, being dumped by a person who knows you well is a far more shattering experience.失去你的内心也会让你脆弱,因为当你的身份是建立在别人的赞美之上的时候,被别人批评和拒绝会感到很伤心。一个难以接受的批判对每个人来说都是痛苦的,但被猛犸深度控制的人比保持自己思想的人的刺痛感更强烈些。有强大的内心相当于有一个坚硬的内核,受到打击这核也仍坚固,而被猛犸控制的人只依赖于别人的容纳,一旦被这个了解你的人抛弃,他的一切便乱七八糟。
Likewise, you know those people who react to being criticized by coming back with a nasty low-blow? Those tend to be severely mammoth-run people, and criticism makes them so mad because mammoths cannot handle criticism.
同样地,你不会知道反对你批评他的人会不会给你一拳头。那些严格遵从猛犸的人的猛犸难以接受批评,所以这些人会因批评而疯掉。
fragile
adj. 脆的;易碎的 dump
vt. 倾倒;倾卸;丢下,卸下;摆脱,扔弃;倾销
vi. 倒垃圾;突然跌倒或落下;卸货;转嫁(责任等)
n. 垃圾场;仓库;无秩序地累积 mad
adj. 疯狂的;发疯的;愚蠢的;着迷的
n. 狂怒 早上好,猛犸象 Nice G哦哦对 Nice G哦哦对 学习学习 失去你的内心也会让你脆弱
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