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Because of this, humans an over-the-top obsession with what others thought of them—a for social and admiration, and a fear of being disliked. Let’s call that obsession a human’s Social Survival Mammoth. It looks something like this:
因此人类过度在意别人的看法,渴求社会的认可和赞美,极度恐惧别人的反感。让我们把这种疯狂称作人类的社会后遗猛犸,它长成这样:
Your Great2,000 Grandfather’s Social Survival Mammoth was central to his ability to and . It was simple—keep the mammoth well fed with social approval and pay close attention to its overwhelming fears of , and you’ll be fine.
2000祖先的社会后遗猛犸最主要的事就是忍耐和成长。这很简单,保持用社会认可和注意它对被否定的恐惧来喂它,你会好受的。 |
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