每天一小段英语（108）

命运号角 · 发表于 2016-7-17 22:58:28

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Losing touch with your AV also makes you

fragile

, because when your

identity

is built on the approval of others, being criticized or rejected by others really hurts. A bad break-up is painful for everyone, but it

sting

s in a much deeper place for a mammoth-run person than for a person with a strong AV. A strong AV makes a stable core, and after a break-up, that core is still holding firm—but since the acceptance of others is all a mammoth-run person has, being

dumped

by a person who knows you well is a far more

shattering

experience.
失去你的内心也会让你脆弱，因为当你的身份是建立在别人的赞美之上的时候，被别人批评和拒绝会感到很伤心。一个难以接受的批判对每个人来说都是痛苦的，但被猛犸深度控制的人比保持自己思想的人的刺痛感更强烈些。有强大的内心相当于有一个坚硬的内核，受到打击这核也仍坚固，而被猛犸控制的人只依赖于别人的容纳，一旦被这个了解你的人抛弃，他的一切便乱七八糟。

Likewise, you know those people who react to being criticized by coming back with a

nasty

low-blow

? Those tend to be severely mammoth-run people, and criticism makes them so mad because mammoths cannot handle criticism.
同样地，你不会知道反对你批评他的人会不会给你一拳头。那些严格遵从猛犸的人的猛犸难以接受批评，所以这些人会因批评而疯掉。

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