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A third area the mammoth is present is anywhere you don’t feel comfortable making a decision without “permission” or approval from others. Do you have opinions you’re from someone else’s mouth, which you’re comfortable having now that you know that person has them? When you introduce your new girlfriend or boyfriend to your friends or family for the first time, can those people’s reaction to your new person change your feelings for him/her? Is there a Puppet Master in your life? If so, who, and why?
猛犸有三分之一是你不得到别人许可或者赞同而做决定就感觉不舒服。你有一个新主意时候因为别人先说出来而闭上了嘴?给你的朋友或者家人介绍自己的对象时会因他们的反应改变你对他/她的看法?你生活中有傀儡师吗?有,为什么?
3) Decide where the mammoth needs to be ousted
决定把猛犸驱逐到哪
It’s not realistic to kick the mammoth entirely out of your head—you’re a human and humans have mammoths in their head, period. The thing we all need to do is certain sacred areas of our lives that must be in the hands of the AV and free of mammoth influence. There are obvious areas that need to be made part of the AV’s like your choice of life partner, your career path, and the way you raise your kids. Others are personal—it comes down to the question | , “In which parts of your life must you be entirely true to yourself?”
从你的脑袋中完全去掉猛犸是不现实的,你和人类一样都有头猛犸。我们应该做的就是把一些猛犸影响到的重要的区域划给你的内心。明显很重要的领域比如选一个终身伴侣,职业规划,还有教育后代的方式。其他方面的因人而异,因为涉及到一个问题:你生活中的哪些部分是必须完全正确地进行下去的? |
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